How I Coach Clients, in brief
Because each professional coach has his or her own style of coaching clients, I thought that you would be interested in having a summary of how I coach, what I expect of my clients and what my clients can expect of me.
My Clients Are Great
I’m blessed with the privilege of choosing who I work with¾you, my clients. I want and enjoy each one of you. You are all successful, and I am assisting you to further your personal, interpersonal, spiritual and professional lives by coaching you to rid tobacco from your life.
I Expect Your Best
If you are hiring me, then you’re probably ready to do and be your best. And if you aren’t doing your best, I’ll ask you to. If you can’t do that at the moment, I’ll understand and do what you need to be heard, loved and helped to achieve wellness.
I Make Direct Requests
From time to time, I’ll make a binding inquiry, like “Will you accomplish X by the end of the month?” You may say yes, say no, or offer another solution. I’ll make you right whichever way you respond.
I Give Straight Advice
If I am sure of the situation, and you’re open to it, I’ll make specific suggestions on how to handle a problem or issue you’re having with quitting tobacco, as well as in other areas germane to this goal. If I’m not sure, I’ll say so. Honesty is one of my values—I am straight with you and expect the same from you. Regardless, use the best of what I say and use your own judgment.
I Don’t Step Over Much
When I hear a funny tone in your voice, or notice something amiss, I’ll ask you about it. Often, it is these small moments which offer the chance to resolve something. However, I don’t confront or push; I’ll merely invite you to look at something.
I PRESCRIBE "HOMEWORK" THAT HELPS
I usually ask that my clients come up with two or three goals, actions or shifts to have between one call and the next, about tobacco cessation. If it is too much, please say so. If you want more, just ask.
You Are Expected To Use Me, Not Depend On Me
As your coach, I am a resource for you to use to your best advantage. I have an almost unlimited amount of care, compassion, forgiveness, and strength for you and I can share many principles which will increase your success and add to the quality of your life. AND, I ask that my clients use me as this resource and friend that I am, but do not let yourselves get into the position of needing me (or coaching) as a dependency thing or fix.
My Commitment To You Is:
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I will listen very carefully to what you do say and what you do not say
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I will ask questions until I am certain that you and I understand you
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I will be absolutely truthful at all times, and I tend toward being candid and, certainly, direct
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I probably believe that you can accomplish more than you believe that you can
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I will have high expectations, and will ask you to stretch for them
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I will support you and your decisions, absolutely
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I will challenge you to reach for an even more fulfilling life beyond tobacco cessation
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I will offer suggestions, advice, and my opinions, but all decisions are yours
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Everything we say is confidential
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You will receive more than is promised
We Will Be Successful
Because the synergy of you having two brains working for you always increases your effectiveness
I Am Here
I want to hear it all. If you have a personal problem, are disturbed with something (even with me), are just starting to realize something big, can’t wait to share a shift/win, call or e-mail me. Anytime.
Here's more detail, if you want it. (Why not call me, instead? It's a lot easier, and more enjoyable to discuss these things in person!)